…to my dating page!
I’m a Euro-Californian gentleman who’s lived in a bit too many countries/states so far, and could be happy to either settle down in your city, or settle together and add more countries/states to the list :)
Hopefully we’re a highly aligned match: thoughtful, affectionate, fun, loyal, emotionally intelligent, looking for our special someone - kind-hearted, non-religious, and child-free.
If you’re looking for a committed but also FUN relationship, keep reading, and let me know if anything resonates (contact info at the end). I know this is a long page, but:
- it’s more efficient at getting to know each other than lots of small talk
- you can skip to the section you want (see the table of contents below)
- bullet points and expandable ▶’s make reading easier 😝
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Basics / what I offer
- 5’8” / 173 cm
- Early 40s, look like in the photos, and banked my stem cells at 36 for the option to rejuvenate to that age
- Location-independent IT professional / remote worker, and digital nomad since 2019, so I can easily move and live in most places, though I do have preferences
- 💻 Formerly at Google in Silicon Valley, now consultant at Anthropic (ChatGPT’s #1 competitor)
- 🤨 Random facts about me (press the arrow…)
- Friends & community > having kids
- Pet-free (I like the peace of mind and freedom to travel) but open to non-shedding ones (or being “apartners”)
- Had a Goldendoodle, and love other people’s pets! And these shedding ones.
- Innately kind, thoughtful and attentive. When I’m with you, I’m with you.
- Intellectual, hence an atheist (deconverted in my 20s), and with a growth mindset
- Adventurous (nomading the world since 2019, and many adventures before that too)
- Fun in all sorts of ways (I tell Dad jokes; sometimes he laughs)